Warren Buffett's Daughter Asked Him For A $41K Loan To Remodel Her Kitchen — But Her Billionaire Dad Said No. 'Go To The Bank Like Everyone Else'

Warren Buffett's reputation for thrift didn't stop at Wall Street. It followed him straight into his own family kitchen.

The story was laid out in Alice Schroeder's 2008 authorized biography, "The Snowball: Warren Buffett and the Business of Life." At the time, Buffett's daughter, Susie, was living in Washington, D.C., in a narrow house that Schroeder described as having "a kitchen the size of a baby blanket" and a back garden she couldn't access. After becoming pregnant, Susie and her husband, Allen, drew up plans to remodel the space so it could fit a small table and open onto the yard.

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They didn't have the money. Susie knew better than to ask her father for a gift. So she asked him for a loan.

"Why not go to the bank?" Buffett asked, according to Schroeder.

He followed with an analogy that captured his thinking. A football player on the Nebraska football team, he explained, shouldn't inherit the starting quarterback position from his father, a former star quarterback. Unearned advantage, inherited position, and unearned wealth offended Buffett's sense of fairness. Schroeder wrote that applying those rules so strictly to his own children was "a chilly way to look at the world."

In 2011, Toronto's The Globe and Mail revisited the story in a profile reflecting on Buffett's upbringing and parenting style. The paper reported the full anecdote this way:

"Once, when his daughter, Susan, asked her father for a $41,000 loan to renovate her kitchen after she had a child, he refused, telling her to ‘go to the bank like everyone else.'"

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That version added the dollar amount but preserved the same core exchange. Buffett declined. The principle held.

What followed matters just as much.

According to "The Snowball," Susie's mother, Susan Thompson Buffett — referred to throughout the biography as Big Susie — eventually learned what had happened. When she saw the condition of her daughter's home, she stepped in herself. Schroeder wrote that Big Susie "turned it upside down and renovated it."

Privately, she was not impressed with her husband's stance. "It's just terrible that Warren won't pay for this," she reportedly complained. Still, the renovation went forward. Susie did not go without — it just wasn't Warren writing the check.

Years later, Susie returned to the episode in the 2017 HBO documentary "Becoming Warren Buffett." By then, the kitchen story had become part of Buffett lore. "There's the famous story about the kitchen with me," she said. "I had some trouble with that one just because I thought I was asking for a loan. I was not asking him to give me the money. I thought, oh come on, can't you do this?"

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She added that she once joked to her mother that she'd end up "on the cover of People magazine someday homeless, because my dad will be like this super-rich guy and… we'll all be wandering around."

Schroeder's biography frames the moment as emblematic, not cruel. Buffett's resistance to inherited advantage wasn't situational. It was philosophical. The same logic he applied to capital allocation, executive roles, and shareholder discipline applied inside his own family — even when the request was modest and the circumstances personal.

Although her dad didn't finance the remodel, Susie didn't hold a grudge. In "Becoming Warren Buffett," she made it clear she wasn't bitter. "I actually agree with his philosophy of not dumping a bunch of money on your kids," she said. "And, by the way, my dad gets a bad rap for that."

Buffett still lives in the Omaha house he bought in 1958. He drives a 2014 Cadillac with visible hail damage. His McDonald's breakfast order depends on the price of Berkshire Hathaway stock that morning. To him, money is a tool — not a ticket.

Susie got her kitchen. And she got the message.

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