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What to Text a Girl: Dating Guru Carlos Xuma's New Challenge Question - What Would James Bond Do?


Relationship expert Carlos Xuma's latest report on knowing what to text a girl recommends that men who plan on seeing Skyfall take inspiration from Agent 007 in making an impression on women.

San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) November 22, 2012

With the release of the latest — and possibly greatest — James Bond film, men once again have a role model for what it means to be an alpha male, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on what to text a girl.

“The character, James Bond, has been held up for decades as the type of man that women like,” says Xuma. “With the release of a new film, it is a perfect reminder that sometimes men need to learn alpha male behavior by watching how other men pull it off. The Bond character can make a great role model.”

Bond is confident, nonchalant, and has integrity, Xuma says. And the new actor, Daniel Craig, who plays in the latest release, Skyfall, is a hit with women everywhere.

“These are the types of qualities that a guy needs to focus on when he is trying to decide what to text a girl,” says Xuma. “Often girls look at text conversations as that first doorway. If a guy blows it here, he often won't make it through that doorway, which is an in-person meeting.”

The problem is that guys often don't know exactly what alpha male behavior in this day and age entails - when they don't, Xuma assures that it helps to have a role model in mind, even an ideal like Bond.

“It helps to have a role model in mind and then the guy can ask himself, what would Bond (or John Wayne or whomever) do in this situation,” Xuma says. “It might seem a little cheesy, but in reality, when a guy is learning what to text a girl, exercises like this really work.”

Xuma offers many reasons for posing Bond as an example.

“This alpha male character is tried and tested,” he says. “Women say they love this guy and men like him as well. Nobody is really wishy washy about how they feel about him, so that means that emulating his confident and self-assured demeanor is a good bet.”

Another thing that women love about Bond, Xuma adds, is that he is a snappy dresser.

“As much as guys hate to admit it, a lot of times that first impression they make is a make it or break it deal,” he says. “Creating a good first impression smoothes the way for when they have a girl's phone number in hand and are trying to decide what to text a girl to get her to go out with them.”

Carlos Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men what to text a girl through his website at He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles, has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.

For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at .

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